"I went through hell trying to making this person happy that I completely lost who I was."

Stacey's biggest obstacle to overcome was when she was 17...

The hardest situation I’ve dealt with was probably a break up. I’ve never really gone through anything too traumatic. But this breakup was probably the hardest thing I’ve dealt with. I went through hell trying to making this person happy that I completely lost who I was and I became a person I began to hate.

It definitely took some to overcome though that’s for sure. I knew the only way to overcome this and recover was to leave the situation...so I did.

What a lot of people don’t understand is you HAVE to go through the hard times to get to the better times.

A lot people after a break up will run right back because they think that’s the only thing that will make them happy. But that’s so wrong, you need to be happy within yourself first. And you’re most likely going to go through hell trying to get to this happy place but let me tell you, it will totally be worth it in the end and you will realize how strong you really are and happy you can really be!

Just have to remember everything heals with time. And with time you can only grow stronger!

Stacey's biggest accomplishment was when she was 18...

My biggest accomplishment has to be talking people out of suicide. I’m not saying they didn’t go through with it because of me but I feel that with me being there and them having someone to talk to they felt that they weren’t alone and all they needed was someone to be there for them for them to realize that maybe life isn’t so bad and that they can make it through.

Stacey's biggest inspiration is...

Elon musk is my biggest inspiration because every dream he has he strives to make come true and they usually do!

Written by Stacey Fraser.

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